Is Hate a Necessary Term?
Hate is a difficult word, and hearing someone use it makes me pay attention to what they have to say. This term has a lot of weight, and we’re both aware of that. However, there are moments when we unconsciously employ it. If you don’t like your employer, have a constantly malfunctioning car, or vanilla icing, you’re not alone. It is true that we have a strong dislike for things in our lives that don’t serve us. This is nothing out of the ordinary. It’s possible, though, that more precise language is best utilized to explain negative emotions. Instead of “I despise my employer,” “I can’t bear it when my car breaks down,” or “I despise vanilla frosting,” we may say, “I dislike my boss.”
This is a fact that you are aware of. We’re all guilty of it.
These terms don’t require much more time to say, but I believe they are more inclusive and friendly in their language. As for the vanilla frosting issue, I believe your son was speaking the truth. He’s 5 years old.
Frustrated Neighborhood Mom, I don’t believe your son meant any damage when he used this word. After the birthday party, I think it’s an excellent chance to have a chat with the mom who spelled out “Wine Night.” There is nothing wrong with the term “hate.” And should only be used in the direst of situations. What would happen if the target of a person’s hatred was replaced? Someone in a child’s class could declare that they dislike a little girl, instead of the other way around. The only thing she did was inadvertently splash milk on another child’s shoes?
Who Has Organized a Children’s Party Before?
I think you get what I’m trying to convey. Language is all we have at times like these.
We live in a time when being aware, sensitive, and inclusive with our language is more crucial than ever before, because of the quick dissemination of words over our phones and the internet. Children are children, too, so let’s not forget about that. They are awe-inspiring creatures that are constantly evolving. He didn’t do anything wrong, and you should be proud of him. In order to express himself, he had to do so. Surely he could have said it in a more appropriate way? Yes. Moreover, I have faith in your ability to instruct him. You showed up and dared to pose this question with such love and boldness. As I’m sure you’re aware, Momma. You care deeply for your son. And he’ll grow up to be a good man because of you. Clearly, you’re taking notice. Hate isn’t a terrible word; it’s a powerful term.