HOW TO GO FROM WORKING MODE TO PARENTING MODE IN THE RIGHT WAY
The coronavirus pandemic tremendously affected parents and their children’s everyday routines. Employees and parents working from home no longer have a clear line of demarcation.
Working and caring for your children simultaneously is no easy task. For much of the day, the feeling of being pulled in two directions can be debilitating.
While working from home, there are strategies to maximize your time so that you may more easily transition from work mode to parental mode.
Establish a Timetable.
When it comes to keeping your kids’ routines, it doesn’t matter if they’re young or old. While older students can join their virtual classrooms and complete assignments independently, younger ones sometimes necessitate additional one-on-one time.
Every morning, set aside some time to help your child get a head start on the day while also encouraging him to stay focused when you can’t be there.
Consistently following a schedule reinforces to your child when you are available to help and when they need to concentrate on their own tasks. By making their days more regular, routines help children feel more in control of the situations in which they find themselves.
If you have young children, try to structure your workday around their daily routine. Being the first one out of bed can help you accomplish a few things on your to-do list before you get into parenting mode. As soon as your child wakes up, you may decide to take a break and return to work at naptime.
Clearly Define Your Boundaries and Expectations.
It can be intimidating to set boundaries when working from home, but it is absolutely necessary. Setting boundaries with both your employer and children is important.
As a parent, it’s necessary to implement some guidelines if your children are constantly begging for snacks while you are working on a spreadsheet or your boss’s emails keep coming in after hours.
Older children can be told to keep quiet unless it is an emergency, or the house can be made more accessible for younger children who can do certain things on their own. This is perfectly acceptable and perfectly normal! To reduce the stress of having to reply to requests late into the night, tell your supervisor that you are only available during business hours.
When you’re juggling two jobs, it’s normal to feel overburdened. However, if you set aside time each day for both your children and your employer, they won’t feel like they’re competing for your time.
Allow Time for Rest and Relaxation.
When you were a kid, how much fun did you have during lunch and recess? You may get some much-needed rest at home with these breaks, which are also beneficial in the workplace.
Don’t feel guilty if you need to leave your computer to make lunch or go for a stroll. Take a break from being glued to a screen for long periods of time, and get some fresh air when you can.
You and your children will also benefit from this time together. Spend some time together talking about anything they’re worried about or just having fun. Everyone will be able to return to their workday refreshed after this brief respite.
Maintain a Balanced View of Your Goals.
Working from home with young children has its ups and downs, and it’s impossible to predict which days will be better than others. Many of us have had days like yours, where we’ve made blunders at work, and our children have thrown tantrums.
If an important deadline at work is looming, you may have to put your child’s worksheets on the back burner for the time being. As a result, you may not be able to respond to your emails as quickly as you would want because your child needs your help. Remember that you are only one person and that some things may sometimes have to be put on hold.
Attempting to achieve perfection in the face of adversity is a recipe for failure. When things are tough, don’t linger on them. Instead, look for ways to grow from them.
Leave work at the office.
When your workplace and home are in the same place, it may be harder to relax. If you have a virtual office, you may be tempted to answer an after-hours email right away, but if it’s a subject that can wait until the next day, you should.
Spend time with your family in the evenings, whether it’s eating dinner or playing a game. Spending time with your child at the end of the day will help you both relax.
It’s important to keep in mind that you are working from home, not residing there. In other words, turn off your computer and enjoy some quality time with your family at the end of the workday.
Because of the coronavirus outbreak, parents now have to juggle their work and family obligations in a way they haven’t had previously. Many parents feel inadequate and guilty due to the apparently never-ending to-do list. This is to be expected.
However, if you’ve been affected by the assault of stress, you don’t have to go through it alone. Other parents in the same circumstances or mental health specialists may be able to provide you with the support you need to deal with your emotions.